Riti Tales..

ME: Leaving someone is okay, but what hurts the most is when, in the beginning, they treated you so well. But then, why do they suddenly make me feel so unwanted? Leaving someone is okay, but it really hurts when, in the beginning, they treated you so well. It's confusing and painful when they suddenly make you feel unwanted. It's difficult to understand why their behavior changed so drastically. Relationships can be complicated, and sometimes people's feelings and actions can change for various reasons. It's important to remember that how someone treats you is a reflection of them, not your worth as a person. You deserve to be treated with love, respect, and kindness. If you're experiencing this, it might be helpful to have an open and honest conversation with the person to express how their actions have made you feel and seek clarity on the situation. Surrounding yourself with supportive friends and loved ones can also provide comfort during this time.

Strange Isn't.? - Dhriti Pant..✨❣️ Love is beautiful but the journey to it is not meant for everyone ... It's been more than one year now , her thought came back in my mind and then I decided to re- read our old conversation. Strange Isn't it.? The person whom you text daily , with whom you share almost everything but suddenly you guys stopped talking to each other. Love is just an emotion it comes and goes but when you have it you are blessed and when you lose your love your emotions die.  It hurts knowing the love of your life will never be with you for the rest of your life. Whenever I heard her name,  it cought my attention instantly and I looked for her. I locked my eyes with her , her eyes were showing regret and mine were full of pain.I knew if I will go back to her the history will repeat by itself. The problem wasn't me and her . The problem is I loved her to early and she loved me to late . "Do you still love her.?" my fiance asked. I smi...

देखो ना , वो मुझसे रूठा हुआ है - धृति पंत  अक्सर कम बोलना , चुप रहना आदत है मेरी।  मुझे लोगों के बीच घुटन सी होती है। अकेलेपन में ना जाने इतना सुकून क्यों है.?   मेरे दोस्त भी काफी कम है। मुझे ज्यादा रिश्ते बनाना नहीं पसंद, क्योंकि मुझे लोगों से बात करने की आदत हो जाती है और जैसे ही मैं सामने वाले शख़्स पर ऐतबार करती हुं वो मुझसे बेहद दूर चले जाते है । लोगों को खोने के डर से अब मैने नए लोगों से मिलना बंद कर दिया हैं । सब से खुद को दूर रखती हु ताकि जब एक दिन अलग होना पड़े तो दुःख ना हो, पर सब की जिंदगी में एक खास शख़्स होता है। मेरे जिंदगी मैं भी है।  हम हर रोज एक दूसरे से खूब बाते किया करते थे। हमारे शहर काफी दूर थे जिस कारण हम सालों से एक दूसरे से मिले नहीं थे, परंतु अक्सर मिलने की योजना बनाते थे। जगह जगह घूमना , सिर्फ एक दूसरे के साथ समय बिताना,  सोच कर ही कितना सुकून मिलता है ना। मैं जानती थी कि हम जिंदगी भर साथ नहीं रह सकते , पर मैं उसके साथ अपनी जिंदगी के कुछ हसीं पल गुजरना चाहती थी।  तारों भरे आसमान से बीचों बीच बैठे मैं और वो। कितने ...

Feelings -1 Kitni ajeeb feeling hoti h naa voh, jab humko koi humse jyada pasand krre. Jise hmari pasand or naa pasand kaa poora khayal ho.. Joh apni har sbha ki shuruaat apko pyar bhari "Good Morning wishes" bhej kar krre.Joh apke saath har lamhe ko jiye..Joh apse kabhi dur naa jaye. Yeh pyar bhi kaafi ajeeb cheez hai.. kisi ko hadd se jyada mil jata hai or koi har vakt bas tarasta jata hai.  Agar apki zindagi m bhi esa insaan hai joh apki care krta ho , apki har choti se choti bat ko sunta ho, samajhta ho..toh yakeen maane apke pas zindagi ki Sabse khoobsurat chez hai. Ab aap us insaan ko kis tarah se sambhal kar rakhte hai yh toh apki choice hai.But    agar apki life m koi esa insaan hai toh usko kabhi dur jaane mat dijiye. Kyuki agar voh chle gya na toh apke pas apna kuch nhi rhega. Us insaan ko hug kijiye,usse ek thank you message likhiye or bas hmesha uske saath rhiye... Love Dhriti.

लोगों के पीछे भागना छोड़ दो -  धृति पंत देखो ये जो तुम बेवजह लोगों के पीछे भागते हो  तो कुछ पल ठहरो और भागना बंद कर दो कुछ देर इंतजार करो अगर वो इंसान वापस आता है तो बेहद खुशी की बात है और अगर वो वापस नहीं आता हैं तो भी खुशी की बात है क्योंकि उसका इंतजार करते हुए आप इस बात से वाकिफ हो जाएंगे कि उनके जीवन में आपका क्या महत्व है? किसी नई रास्ते में जाने से पहले पुराने रास्ते को छोड़ना ही पड़ता है। जानती हु, वो पुराने रास्ते से आपकी बहुत यादें जुड़ी हुई है पर अगर आप अभी पुराने रास्ते को छोड़ने की हिम्मत नही करेंगे तो यकीन मानें आने वाले कई वर्षों बाद भी आप उसी रास्ते में रहेंगे लेकिन "अकेले"  । किसी ने क्या खूब कहा है : " कहीं पहुंचने के लिए कही से निकलना बेहद जरूरी है " उन लोगों के पीछे भागने से कोई फायदा नही है  , जिनके जीवन में आपके समय की कोई कीमत ना हो। अपना समय उसको दे जिसको आपके समय की कीमत पता हो। कोई व्यक्ति कितना ही व्यस्त, कितना ही थका हुआ क्यों ना हो अगर आपकी अहमियत उसके जीवन में है तो वो आपसे बात करने के लिए समय निकाल ही लेगा भले ही वो पांच मिनट का ...

STOP MESSAGING HIM - DHRITI PANT MESSAGING HIM AND WAITING FOR HIS REPLY IS NEVER GOING TO MAKE A CHANGE. WISH HIM THE BEST AND BE HAPPY.  If he was the right one he would have showed you. Anyone who loves you and care that much about you will not only say but will demonstrate it. Keep going because you are strong and  this time it's Goodbye for real. You didn't deserve to be treated the way you feel about yourself and way others treat you. There is nothing like perfect relationship. More often it require a lot of understanding and sacrifices.   Life is all about balancing between holding on and letting go. I know it's never easy letting go of something that once brought happiness and peace but the more you attach yourself the more you get hurt. Attachment create suffering but you can walk away from attachment.  You will found peace just by walking away and will be proud for the making the best decision.

From being sunshine till dawn  From listing to her till she's gone .  From climbing mountain with passing rock..  From respecting her decision and walking along ..  From holding hand and becoming my wife... I want to tell you that you are my life.. Kissing on  forehead remind me of you... I wanted to tell that I love you...

Do you love yourself ? - Dhriti "Better to have a short life that is full of what you like, doing than a long life spend in a miserable way".  - Alan Watts. I know you are going through ups and down in life. I know you are broken , I know you want someone who can be with you everytime, cherish you, make you feel better in your mood swings. But buddy you are enough for youself You don't even require anyone else for you. You have to feel it with in yourself that you are okay. You are beautiful even with your flaws.  No need to change yourself for anyone. Just be happy for who you are because I know you are perfect. The one who love you has to love your flaws too. And trust me what matter is Do you love yourself? If you love yourself, you do what's best for you.Be proud of who you are. Love yourself everyday even at your lowest point. Remember that you're amazing. Just let go what others has done with you. Forgive them and Let go off your past. Don't ...

Let him Go - Dhriti Pant I just remembered a line from " Kissing Booth " :-  You can't really hold on to someone because the tighter you hold on them the more they wanna slip away. All you can do is Love them  And make sure they know that you're never gonna slip away. If you love someone shower all the love you have for them, don't hesitate to show your love and at some point if he tries to slip away from you, your love then my dear please let go off your hold and don't hold that hand again.. Just walk away and you will feel much better. Few days back Someone shared her experience with me :- I have experienced this with my crush , we both knew we felt the same towards one another . At a certain point he started texting me every 4 days instead of multiple times in a day. I started feeling sad about that when it started to get too long, 4 days no text,  he comes back to talk to me for only an hour and then disappears. We discussed about that but he w...

Our Perfect Story - Dhriti Pant  Memories of those days when I was in a rollercoaster of emotions not knowing either we will meet or not.  But meeting him after soo long time and finally realising nothing has changed between us. First love feel will remain forever no matter what the relationship defines. I have never shared this feeling with someone but this time I want you people to realise that Everything is possible when you are in love with someone unconditionally. Sometime what matter for me is his presence.Whenever he looks at me with his glittering eyes, the whole world freezes into one perfect moment. His smile, His eye's everything that's his is a part of mine, forever and ever. He feels the same love I hold for him. Comment ❤️ if you love someone unconditionally.