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Leaving someone

ME: Leaving someone is okay, but what hurts the most is when, in the beginning, they treated you so well. But then, why do they suddenly make me feel so unwanted? Leaving someone is okay, but it really hurts when, in the beginning, they treated you so well. It's confusing and painful when they suddenly make you feel unwanted. It's difficult to understand why their behavior changed so drastically. Relationships can be complicated, and sometimes people's feelings and actions can change for various reasons. It's important to remember that how someone treats you is a reflection of them, not your worth as a person. You deserve to be treated with love, respect, and kindness. If you're experiencing this, it might be helpful to have an open and honest conversation with the person to express how their actions have made you feel and seek clarity on the situation. Surrounding yourself with supportive friends and loved ones can also provide comfort during this time.

Strange Isn't.?

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Strange Isn't.? - Dhriti Pant..✨❣️ Love is beautiful but the journey to it is not meant for everyone ... It's been more than one year now , her thought came back in my mind and then I decided to re- read our old conversation. Strange Isn't it.? The person whom you text daily , with whom you share almost everything but suddenly you guys stopped talking to each other. Love is just an emotion it comes and goes but when you have it you are blessed and when you lose your love your emotions die.  It hurts knowing the love of your life will never be with you for the rest of your life. Whenever I heard her name,  it cought my attention instantly and I looked for her. I locked my eyes with her , her eyes were showing regret and mine were full of pain.I knew if I will go back to her the history will repeat by itself. The problem wasn't me and her . The problem is I loved her to early and she loved me to late . "Do you still love her.?" my fiance asked. I smi...

देखो ना , वो मुझसे रूठा हुआ है - धृति पंत

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देखो ना , वो मुझसे रूठा हुआ है - धृति पंत  अक्सर कम बोलना , चुप रहना आदत है मेरी।  मुझे लोगों के बीच घुटन सी होती है। अकेलेपन में ना जाने इतना सुकून क्यों है.?   मेरे दोस्त भी काफी कम है। मुझे ज्यादा रिश्ते बनाना नहीं पसंद, क्योंकि मुझे लोगों से बात करने की आदत हो जाती है और जैसे ही मैं सामने वाले शख़्स पर ऐतबार करती हुं वो मुझसे बेहद दूर चले जाते है । लोगों को खोने के डर से अब मैने नए लोगों से मिलना बंद कर दिया हैं । सब से खुद को दूर रखती हु ताकि जब एक दिन अलग होना पड़े तो दुःख ना हो, पर सब की जिंदगी में एक खास शख़्स होता है। मेरे जिंदगी मैं भी है।  हम हर रोज एक दूसरे से खूब बाते किया करते थे। हमारे शहर काफी दूर थे जिस कारण हम सालों से एक दूसरे से मिले नहीं थे, परंतु अक्सर मिलने की योजना बनाते थे। जगह जगह घूमना , सिर्फ एक दूसरे के साथ समय बिताना,  सोच कर ही कितना सुकून मिलता है ना। मैं जानती थी कि हम जिंदगी भर साथ नहीं रह सकते , पर मैं उसके साथ अपनी जिंदगी के कुछ हसीं पल गुजरना चाहती थी।  तारों भरे आसमान से बीचों बीच बैठे मैं और वो। कितने ...

23.june.2022

Feelings -1 Kitni ajeeb feeling hoti h naa voh, jab humko koi humse jyada pasand krre. Jise hmari pasand or naa pasand kaa poora khayal ho.. Joh apni har sbha ki shuruaat apko pyar bhari "Good Morning wishes" bhej kar krre.Joh apke saath har lamhe ko jiye..Joh apse kabhi dur naa jaye. Yeh pyar bhi kaafi ajeeb cheez hai.. kisi ko hadd se jyada mil jata hai or koi har vakt bas tarasta jata hai.  Agar apki zindagi m bhi esa insaan hai joh apki care krta ho , apki har choti se choti bat ko sunta ho, samajhta ho..toh yakeen maane apke pas zindagi ki Sabse khoobsurat chez hai. Ab aap us insaan ko kis tarah se sambhal kar rakhte hai yh toh apki choice hai.But    agar apki life m koi esa insaan hai toh usko kabhi dur jaane mat dijiye. Kyuki agar voh chle gya na toh apke pas apna kuch nhi rhega. Us insaan ko hug kijiye,usse ek thank you message likhiye or bas hmesha uske saath rhiye... Love Dhriti.

लोगों के पीछे भागना छोड़ दो - धृति पंत

लोगों के पीछे भागना छोड़ दो -  धृति पंत देखो ये जो तुम बेवजह लोगों के पीछे भागते हो  तो कुछ पल ठहरो और भागना बंद कर दो कुछ देर इंतजार करो अगर वो इंसान वापस आता है तो बेहद खुशी की बात है और अगर वो वापस नहीं आता हैं तो भी खुशी की बात है क्योंकि उसका इंतजार करते हुए आप इस बात से वाकिफ हो जाएंगे कि उनके जीवन में आपका क्या महत्व है? किसी नई रास्ते में जाने से पहले पुराने रास्ते को छोड़ना ही पड़ता है। जानती हु, वो पुराने रास्ते से आपकी बहुत यादें जुड़ी हुई है पर अगर आप अभी पुराने रास्ते को छोड़ने की हिम्मत नही करेंगे तो यकीन मानें आने वाले कई वर्षों बाद भी आप उसी रास्ते में रहेंगे लेकिन "अकेले"  । किसी ने क्या खूब कहा है : " कहीं पहुंचने के लिए कही से निकलना बेहद जरूरी है " उन लोगों के पीछे भागने से कोई फायदा नही है  , जिनके जीवन में आपके समय की कोई कीमत ना हो। अपना समय उसको दे जिसको आपके समय की कीमत पता हो। कोई व्यक्ति कितना ही व्यस्त, कितना ही थका हुआ क्यों ना हो अगर आपकी अहमियत उसके जीवन में है तो वो आपसे बात करने के लिए समय निकाल ही लेगा भले ही वो पांच मिनट का ...

Stop messaging him - Dhriti Pant

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STOP MESSAGING HIM - DHRITI PANT MESSAGING HIM AND WAITING FOR HIS REPLY IS NEVER GOING TO MAKE A CHANGE. WISH HIM THE BEST AND BE HAPPY.  If he was the right one he would have showed you. Anyone who loves you and care that much about you will not only say but will demonstrate it. Keep going because you are strong and  this time it's Goodbye for real. You didn't deserve to be treated the way you feel about yourself and way others treat you. There is nothing like perfect relationship. More often it require a lot of understanding and sacrifices.   Life is all about balancing between holding on and letting go. I know it's never easy letting go of something that once brought happiness and peace but the more you attach yourself the more you get hurt. Attachment create suffering but you can walk away from attachment.  You will found peace just by walking away and will be proud for the making the best decision.

Sunshine till dawn

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From being sunshine till dawn  From listing to her till she's gone .  From climbing mountain with passing rock..  From respecting her decision and walking along ..  From holding hand and becoming my wife... I want to tell you that you are my life.. Kissing on  forehead remind me of you... I wanted to tell that I love you...

Do you love yourself.? - Dhriti

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Do you love yourself ? - Dhriti "Better to have a short life that is full of what you like, doing than a long life spend in a miserable way".  - Alan Watts. I know you are going through ups and down in life. I know you are broken , I know you want someone who can be with you everytime, cherish you, make you feel better in your mood swings. But buddy you are enough for youself You don't even require anyone else for you. You have to feel it with in yourself that you are okay. You are beautiful even with your flaws.  No need to change yourself for anyone. Just be happy for who you are because I know you are perfect. The one who love you has to love your flaws too. And trust me what matter is Do you love yourself? If you love yourself, you do what's best for you.Be proud of who you are. Love yourself everyday even at your lowest point. Remember that you're amazing. Just let go what others has done with you. Forgive them and Let go off your past. Don't ...

Let Him Go - Dhriti

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Let him Go - Dhriti Pant I just remembered a line from " Kissing Booth " :-  You can't really hold on to someone because the tighter you hold on them the more they wanna slip away. All you can do is Love them  And make sure they know that you're never gonna slip away. If you love someone shower all the love you have for them, don't hesitate to show your love and at some point if he tries to slip away from you, your love then my dear please let go off your hold and don't hold that hand again.. Just walk away and you will feel much better. Few days back Someone shared her experience with me :- I have experienced this with my crush , we both knew we felt the same towards one another . At a certain point he started texting me every 4 days instead of multiple times in a day. I started feeling sad about that when it started to get too long, 4 days no text,  he comes back to talk to me for only an hour and then disappears. We discussed about that but he w...

Our Perfect Story

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Our Perfect Story - Dhriti Pant  Memories of those days when I was in a rollercoaster of emotions not knowing either we will meet or not.  But meeting him after soo long time and finally realising nothing has changed between us. First love feel will remain forever no matter what the relationship defines. I have never shared this feeling with someone but this time I want you people to realise that Everything is possible when you are in love with someone unconditionally. Sometime what matter for me is his presence.Whenever he looks at me with his glittering eyes, the whole world freezes into one perfect moment. His smile, His eye's everything that's his is a part of mine, forever and ever. He feels the same love I hold for him. Comment ❤️ if you love someone unconditionally.

The Monk Who Sold His Ferrari by Robin Sharma Summary In Hindi.

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रॉबिन शर्मा द्वारा लिखी गई यह किताब "The Monk Who Sold His Ferrari"  अर्थात एक सन्यासी जिसने अपनी संपत्ति बेच दी, प्रसिद्ध किताबों में से एक है इस किताब के द्वारा रॉबिन शर्मा ने जीवन के 7 महत्वपूर्ण सिद्धांतो का उल्लेख किया है । कहानी इस प्रकार शुरू होती है कि जूलियन मेंटल एक सफल व  अमीर वकील थे उनके पास हवेली, प्राइवेट जेट और फेरारी कार थी। वह बेहद परिश्रमी व्यक्ति थे। जूलियन 24 घंटे में से 18 घंटे काम करते थे जिस कारण उनके परिवार वाले उनको छोड़कर चले गए थे। कार्य का तनाव इतना था, कि वह 53 वर्ष की उम्र में ही 80 वर्ष के बुजुर्ग लगने लगे थे। कार्य के तनाव के कारण एक दिन कोर्ट में काम करते हुए उनके सीने में दर्द हुआ और वो बेहोश हो गए। अस्पताल ले जाने के बाद डॉक्टर ने बताया कि उन्हें हार्ट अटैक आया है। जूलियन को डॉक्टर्स द्वारा यह सलाह दी गई कि उन्हें अपने कार्य का इतना तनाव नहीं लेना चाहिए तथा शांति पूर्वक अपना जीवन व्यतीत करना चाहिए । डॉक्टर्स द्वारा इन वाक्यों को सुनने के  बाद जूलियन द्वारा एक साहसी कदम उठाया गया। उन्होंने अपना बंगला, प्राइवेट जेट और फेरार...

pollution and it's types/ Name 4 types of Pollution

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POLLUTION AND ITS TYPES:  Pollution is the  process of polluting water, air and atmosphere. Pollution make our environment unfit for living.  There are four kinds of pollution:   1. Air pollution  2. Water pollution 3.  Noise pollution  4. soil pollution 1. AIR POLLUTION :   Causes :  Burning of coal, petrol and diesel in train, lorries and truck etc produce poisonous gases which pollute  the atmosphere and cause air pollution. Disease caused by Air Pollution:  1. Lung cancer 2. Chronic obstructive pulmonary 3. Stroke WATER POLLUTION:   Causes :  Sewage and industrial waste pollute the river and sea water such water causes water pollution.  Disease caused by Water Pollution:   1. Jaundice 2. Dysentry 3. Gastroenteritis. 3. NOISE  POLLUTION : Noise in big cities is created by means of trains, trucks, buses and other vehicles. industries machines also cause noise. Noise is als...

Festivals In India

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Festivals In India India is also known as the land of festivals. Indian festivals are celebrated with equal pomp across the country. Festivals are divided into two parts :  1. National Festivals : National Festivals include -  • Republic Day is celebrated on 26th January. • Independence Day is celebrated on 15th August. • Gandhi Jayanti is celebrated on 2nd October. • Happy Ambedkar Jayanti is celebrated on 14th April 2. Religious Festivals : These festivals include -  • Diwali  • Holi  • Pongal  • Eid-ul-fitr • Christmas

Motivational quotes/ 4 Motivational quotes

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4 Motivational Quotes. 1. One day these 5 a.m. will make you a legend. 2.  Work hard until the lamp of your study table become the spotlight of stage. 3. Yes..! Study sucks. But trust me, not more than failure. 4. Ofcourse it is hard, it is supposed to be hard. If it was easy everyone would do it. Hard is what makes it great. SOURCE : https://youtu.be/4t_mG6jzrYs

Love yourself/ How to deal with Body shaming

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"If you cannot praise anyone for who they are, you do not have any right to make negative comment about them".  Practice of humiliating someone by making comments about their body shape or size is known as BODY SHAMING . Shaming people makes them feel sorry for themselves, because they feel terrible from all the bullying. Body Shaming can cause depression and increase risk of suicide because the people being shamed suffers mentally and physically. • Other effect of Body Shaming is social anxiety. When people are publicly body shamed there is the tendency for the victims to avoid public place and hence isolating them. HOW TO AVOID BODY SHAMING :  1. Avoid people who make negative comments. 2. Being your authentic self and staying true to yourself. In a world that constantly celebrates " BEING FAKE" just "BE YOURSELF".  3. Don't let people constantly put you down buddy.. 4. Learn to love your body. It's your body and no one should have t...

चांद की चाहत

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सफर की मंजिलो में हमे अब मजा कहा कोई आता है। महबूब के जाने के बाद अब गम ही तो सताता है। अधेरी काली रातों में जब सन्नाटा सा छा जाता है। चांद की चाहत में फिर एक तारा टूट कर बिखर जाता है।

Look up to the star's 🌟

LOOK UP TO THE STAR'S..!! BY : RICHA JOSHI..🖤 One of the best gift by The Universe , The stars. Stars are best comforter ever. No matter what a person is going through looking at the night sky with full of stars all the worries just disappear. It is believed that  a wish made while seeing a falling star is full filled. I don't know whether it's true or not but every time we see one we wish for something.. The brightness of a shooting star and it's speed of course have universal physics behind it but from philosophical point of you I think the falling star give us the most positive inspiration that no matter you are stable for falling never dull your spark. One should always shine no matter in which situation life put them in.Even if you're falling or you're not finding the answers and losing a task you should not forget that god always have better plans, if a door is closed god always opens a window for us to achieve our motive. As the song Shooting star by Owl...

how to move on in life.?

MOVE ON AND BE HAPPY... BY : DHRITI PANT.. 🤍 You can be happy every time just be yourself. Life is full of ups and downs but sometimes we loose ourselves just to please others. Loving someone can either heal you totally or can destroy you. You have to choose what makes you happy. Pleasing others doesn't heal you, there is only one person who heals you and that person is YOU.  Just know how to love yourself completely. Life is beautiful no doubt  but it's complicated. We often fall for someone who doesn't even know our value. By loving someone deeply we lost our value in their life  and most important we lost our own self respect. Know your value buddy because you are important for them who knows your value, who knows who you really are.  I remembered one dialogue from "DEAR ZINDAGI : Broken thing's can be mended again " but "I think  broken things are beautiful too" just you have to change your perspective towards it. Loving someone doesn't make...

Childhood memories: memories that never faded

Childhood memories : Memories that never faded.  By Richa Joshi and Dhriti Pant Here right now when I'm sitting to write about my childhood memories, so many thoughts and scenes are flashing back, this blog is to those good old days. From buying toys for different games, giving each one a different name. Painting our sky in which ever colour I wanted, I still remember everything thing vividly. I still remember when I went to Naina Devi temple, I saw a shop near the temple, there I saw a beautiful doll and I asked my parents to get that doll for me but they refused because I already had many dolls. But that time that was the one I wanted (well that's how things work in childhood). I guess these small things which may not make sense now somehow and somewhere effect us and that's the reason that out if so many things from the childhood we only remember a few of them and above shared is one such. So that time I promised  myself that one day I'll buy that doll by myself. See...

lag jaa gale ki phir ye hasin raat ho naa ho..

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Lag Ja Gale Ki Phir ye Hasin Raat Ho Na Ho shayad Phir Is Janam Mein mulakat Ho Na Ho ... And from the day we met, I just want to hug him tightly. I just want to feel completely in his arms. Maybe I will get any chance to hug him or not . Maybe we will meet each other again or not. hum Ko Mili Hai Aaj ye Ghadiya Naseeb Se je Bhar Ke Dekh Leejiye hamako Kareeb Se phir Apke Naseeb Mein ye Baat Ho Na Ho shayad phir Is Janaam Mein mulakaat Ho Na Ho... After so many ups and downs, daydreams and distances. Now finally here you are, here I am in the same place, at the same time(which is uncertain) and looking into each other's eyes, so many thoughts passing through our mind but none is clear, we are so lost in the moment, looking at each other like we are trying to picture each other in our hearts that even if we may not see each other again but whenever we'll close our eyes when someone will ask about the person we loved, we will have each other's picture appearing in front of o...